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Are intrusive thoughts really my thoughts?
The key to managing intrusive thoughts is to learn they’re just thoughts — they are not the truth just because you have them. Even the most distressing thought doesn’t increase the likelihood of something bad happening. Intrusive thoughts also don’t reflect on your character. Intrusive thoughts are often related to memories of painful past events or unwelcome projections of things you’d never choose to think about, if you had your way. Either way, the one thing that they are definitely related to is anxiety, and quite possibly past trauma. Intrusive thoughts are often triggered by stress or anxiety. They may also be a short-term problem brought on by biological factors, such as hormone shifts. For example, a woman might experience an uptick in intrusive thoughts after the birth of a child. Yes! The short answer is “yes.” Intrusive thoughts are just that – thoughts. Even if you are of sound mind and free of any serious mental health issues, it’s possible to be struck by intrusive thoughts out of nowhere – and this is not something you should feel too concerned about. The two most common diagnoses associated with intrusive thoughts are anxiety and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). They can also be a symptom of depression, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Bipolar Disorder, or Attention Deficit-Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
How common are intrusive thoughts?
Are intrusive thoughts normal? It’s common to have an intrusive thought every once in a while. In fact, it happens to almost everyone. A 2014 study found that about 94 percent of participants had at least one intrusive thought in the 3 months prior to the study. Everyone has thoughts that are upsetting or strange, and that do not make a lot of sense, from time to time. This is normal. In fact several well-conducted studies have discovered that close to 100% of the general population has intrusive and disturbing thoughts, images or ideas. Phillipson explains that intrusive thoughts are completely meaningless, and it’s important that you and/or your therapist don’t assign a meaning to them. Intrusive thoughts don’t make you a bad person and they most certainly don’t reflect your character. So remember, if you have a thought that feels bad and repeats in a stuck manner, that is all you need to know to determine that it is an Unwanted Intrusive Thought. Forget about the content. Pay attention to how it acts, and how it feels. Anxiety is a real disorder.
Should I worry about my intrusive thoughts?
While intrusive thoughts themselves aren’t dangerous, if you believe you’re experiencing something more, such as postpartum depression or suicidal thoughts, and may be a danger to yourself or others, seek help immediately. Intrusive thoughts are unwanted thoughts, images, impulses, or urges that can occur spontaneously or that can be cued by external/internal stimuli. Typically, these thoughts are distressing (hence “intrusive”) and tend to reoccur. 01 Intrusive thoughts are caused by misfired signals in the amygdala. 02 According to Dr. Phillipson, intrusive thoughts are a mental disorder, not a mental illness. “Most people experience intrusive thoughts through trauma, past events and regrets,” says Evelyn McGee, Therapist at Centerstone. “These thoughts stem from the rational voice and it is thinking of the worst possible outcome that could happen.” For example, that you have knocked someone over in your car. Worrying you’re going to harm someone because you will lose control. For example, that you will push someone in front of a train or stab them. Violent intrusive thoughts or images of yourself doing something violent or abusive. Your mind is sending you signals that you need to do something, even though there is no real risk. It is yelling at you that you need to take action. This is why OCD feels so real. There is a very real process taking place in your brain.
Do intrusive thoughts ever go away?
Negative thoughts can make their way in and cause anxiety in nearly every situation. It may feel strange to even have these thoughts, and they may recede within moments. For some people, though, the intrusive thoughts don’t fade away and may even grow more intense and more disturbing. Intrusive thoughts are insignificant or irrelevant thoughts that occur to a person in any situation. These thoughts usually do not have any meaning but are frightening and scary. A frequent and/or excessively intense occurrence of these thoughts may result in obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Cognitive biases and distortions are sneaky ways in which your mind convinces you of something that isn’t really true. The second reason you may have so many automatic negative thoughts is that your negative thinking has become a habit. According to an expert, “anxiety is an indicator that your life is out of alignment. It’s your intuition, your inner voice, letting you know that something is not right.” For most of us, these thoughts seem “messed up” or funny, because they’re so out of place. But for someone with OCD, these disturbing thoughts might feel like real possibilities — even if that person knows their thoughts are probably irrational. If you’re experiencing unwanted thoughts about losing your mind, becoming psychotic, or developing schizophrenia, it may be a sign of schizophrenia OCD. You might find yourself constantly questioning the state of your mind, which can cause you to be overly focused on feeling different than usual.
What triggers intrusive thoughts?
Intrusive thoughts are unwanted or repetitive thoughts usually creating disturbing or graphic images that can interfere with your daily functions. “Most people experience intrusive thoughts through trauma, past events and regrets,” says Evelyn McGee, Therapist at Centerstone. Intrusive thoughts are often triggered by stress or anxiety. They may also be a short-term problem brought on by biological factors, such as hormone shifts. For example, a woman might experience an uptick in intrusive thoughts after the birth of a child. OCD obsessions are repeated, persistent and unwanted thoughts, urges or images that are intrusive and cause distress or anxiety. You might try to ignore them or get rid of them by performing a compulsive behavior or ritual. These obsessions typically intrude when you’re trying to think of or do other things. Emotional trauma is recognizable by a persistent sense of unsafety and other challenging emotions such as fear and/or anxiety. It is often accompanied by other physical symptoms as well, such as chronic insomnia, nightmares, and other health issues. Spiraling negative thoughts can be a result of overthinking. This tends to happen when we have few distractions – which is why lying awake at night churning things over in our mind is a familiar feeling to many. At the time, negative thoughts may seem completely rational and logical. So we believe them to be true.